I'd say it takes a determinable amount of time to figure people out. You think you know someone and then BAM! they do something that ultimately shocks the shit out of you...especially in the beginning. I had date number four with this bright, young doctor who in every way seemed pretty dreamy. Cute, professional, humorous...you know all the things you look for. Somehow we got on the discussion of religion and before long I found myself playing devils advocate asking things i already knew the answer to just to see where he was coming from. Somewhere in the midst of it all i realized that for this guy to be pretty amazing on so many different levels the one i needed him to be just wasn't happening. If nothing else, I require an open mind about life in general. How else should you take on this earthly hell. I mean we're sitting at the bar and I'm contemplating what, if anything, should happen next when all these opinions and judgements about everything from homosexuality (that's wrong for men but ok for women apparently) to Jesus starts flying out of his mouth piece all followed by the statement "i'm not judging though". Of course your not homie and I'm just not into you. Everything is fine and dandy when you don't ask questions but the minute you do your sure to find that its all fun and games until some teeth are missing and you find yourself sitting on curb wondering what the fuck just happened.
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